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Five Little Ways I Deal with Depression

  1. Reach out
    I do my best not to isolate. I come out of my room. I come out of my hiding place. Every day I reach out somehow – via social media, text, through an online forum, in some form I connect with someone. It’s not to talk about depression, it’s simply with the purpose of connecting to another human being, even if that person is a stranger. It reminds me that I am not alone. 
  2. Play music – the uplifting, happy kind
    Have songs that you associate with good memories? Music that makes you want to dance? Let it bring you out of your funk. I used to make the mistake of playing very soothing, meditative music during depressive episodes – for me, it only encouraged me to sit still even longer. I found that music that I enjoyed when I was normally in a better state helped me more, so long as it wasn’t agitating. I’ve created a couple different playlists that I can choose from, depending on what kind of down I’m in.
  3. Come out of the dark
    As painful as it is when all I want to do is sleep the day away, when I’m at my worst I make a point of opening the blinds during the day and letting in as much daylight as possible. Even if I do go back to bed I leave them open, then close them in the evening before bedtime.
  4. Change my clothes
    Ok, ok, before you stop reading – hear me out. This doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker. When I say, “change my clothes”, it usually means from one set of yoga pants to another set of yoga pants. It is the action of changing clothes from what I slept in the night before into another set of clothes that matters, even if I sleep in those clothes, too. It helps keep track of day and night, and again, for someone who is going through a depressive episode, feels like a major accomplishment, going a long way towards feeling like a human being.
  5. Make a self-care kit in advance – then use it
    Stocked with body and facial wipes, dry shampoo, nicely-scented moisturizing lotion, a travel-sized bottle of mouthwash, deodorant, and fingernail clippers. You could also put in nail files, cotton balls, nail polish remover, and nail polish that you would like to wear. When the time comes where you are just too tired even get out of bed, a little self-care will go a long way.Wash your face, wash your hands, wash your body. Moisturize your elbows and your knees with the lotion. Dry shampoo works wonders, use it and your fingers to comb the days of neglect away. It’s amazing what just a tiny bit of self-care can do for your mood and how you feel about yourself. Not just your appearance, but in knowing that you did something that day, and that something was something for YOU.

While depression doesn’t go away, it does have it’s ups and downs. As silly as it may seem, a little planning ahead can help yourself when you aren’t up to it. <3

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